Cardi B Wants a TV Show and Booze with the Name ‘Bocktails’

Cardi B apparently wants in on the television biz, because she’s just filed legal docs staking her claim. Cardi wants to own the name, “Bocktails with Cardi B” — in case you didn’t know, bocktails is a play on cocktails. As for the premise, according to…

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Steak, booze and a sense of dull dread: Here’s what really happens at the NFL combine

Once a year, all of football descends upon Indianapolis for the NFL combine, a few days at which will tell you far less about the prospective players than it will about the league they aspire to join.
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Tommy Lee Says Booze is Not a Problem, Pamela’s Lying and Brandon Needs to Learn a Lesson

Tommy Lee is calling BS on his ex-wife, Pamela Anderson, saying he doesn’t have a booze problem … and insisting his drinking has nothing to do with Brandon punching him.  Tommy tells TMZ … Pamela’s allegation he is an alcoholic is off…

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‘Melrose Place’ Star Jamie Luner’s Accuser Claims She Plied Him with Drugs, Booze Before Sex

The man accusing “Melrose Place” star Jamie Luner of performing oral sex on him when he was only 16 … claims she plied him with drugs and taped their encounter, but she’s calling BS. Anthony Oliver tells TMZ … he met Luner through his…

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Booze Science | Ice

Booze Science is better drinking through chemistry. WIRED articles editor Adam Rogers explores the scientific ways ice can influence a cocktail with Jennifer Colliau, beverage director at San Francisco’s innovative bar The Interval at The Long Now.
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Red, White, and Booze: 16 Spiked Summer Treats Just Perfect for a Long Weekend

A three-day weekend means more recovery time, right? So Fourth of July is exactly when you should whip up one (or more) of these spiked desserts. Bonus points if you pick a patriotic red, white,…


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GWAR Singer Vulvatron — Fired Over Booze … But Swears, ‘I’m No Drunk!’

A GWAR of gwords is going down between the metal band and its fired singer Vulvatron – they say she’s a reckless drunk, but she says she totally parties responsibly. Last week on Facebook, GWAR’s Brent Purgason put Kim Dylla — Vulvatron’s not…

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Divorced Men: Booze and Women

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I’ll admit it, after my divorce I drank a lot and sought the approval of women. I know it’s cliché and goes against all of the advice found in self help books and therapy, but I did these things anyway. I heard all the advice suggesting I ‘give myself time to be single,’ ‘let myself feel the pain,’ and not ‘avoid grieving.’ I get it. But I didn’t care because I knew better and I’m smarter than that. Or so I thought.

The drinking came easily because I love craft beer and own of a small microbrewery. So I convinced myself that I was contributing to my business by developing my palate. The five or six varied high alcohol craft beers I was drinking every night were consumed for ‘market research’. Though I was learning a lot about beer styles and varieties and developing an excellent tasting capacity, I was also drowning my sorrows and developing a real addiction.

All that drinking, coupled with the grief of losing a marriage, put me in a major depression. My ego had taken a pretty hard hit, and the combination of grief and low self-esteem led me to seek any sort of affirmation I could find. I was horrible at affirming myself, so I sought the approval of women. Having lost my wife to another man, I guess I was looking to fill that hole in myself by getting the attention of other women. I needed to know I was attractive and desirable.

I understand now that the booze was about covering up my grief. While it worked to a degree, it also prevented me from moving beyond the grief and left me with a lot of hangovers. Grief has to be experienced and integrated into our lives or it will persist. Sure, I could chase it away for a few hours before bed, but it was right there the next morning cloaked in a heavy blanket of headache and nausea. It wasn’t until I stopped drinking that I could feel the pain and incorporate it into myself. I had to forgo my coping mechanism and learn how to cope on my own. I had to develop a NEW SET OF SKILLS that no one has until they need them. We do not come pre-packaged with grief management abilities – we learn them by doing them.

In addition to using alcohol to mask my grief, I used online dating and flirting to esteem my ego. Infidelity and a rough marriage left me with poor self esteeming abilities. I felt undesirable, unworthy, and that I would never find love again. Rather than (re)learning to esteem myself, I sought the attention of women. I learned early on that I was not a one-night-stand kind of guy, as much as I wanted to be, but that I needed a level of intimacy to enjoy sex.

So rather than seeking sex, I was seeking approval. Online dating is great for that. I wanted girls to find my profiles appealing and attractive. I wanted women to choose me from the vast array of other men. I wanted to be better and worthy and desired. I found myself going on a lot of first dates and then losing interest. My self esteem was feeding on the initial experience of being chosen. Rather than wanting to pursue a relationship, I wanted to go back online and be chosen again.

It took me a while to figure that out that I was dating for the wrong reasons and that I was essentially unavailable to the women who chose me. I feel some remorse and guilt for my behavior, but I also accept that it was not intentional on my part. I stopped seeking esteem from other people and began to DEVELOP THE SKILLS TO DO IT MYSELF.

I imagine it is pretty common for men who experience infidelity to take the path of booze and women. I am not proud of myself for taking this path. But I eventually saw the error in my ways and learned from the experiences without causing too much harm to myself or others. Looking back, I think my experiences were necessary and probably couldn’t have happened any other way. I am proud I redirected my behavior and discovered what people mean when they say that divorce is an opportunity. I accept that sometimes we have to make mistakes to get it right. Don’t beat yourself up if your post-divorce path takes awkward or cliché turns, but keep your eye on the prize of healing.
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Wayne Static’s Death — Static X Frontman Killed by Overdose on Oxycodone and Booze

Wayne Static, frontman for the metal group Static X, OD’d on a mixture of alcohol and a bunch of drugs … including Oxycodone. Wayne was found dead in his bed last November … his wife was in bed with him at the time. The San Bernardino County…

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The Stages of Your Taste in Booze, by Age

From doing kegstands in a frat house basement to drinking a glass of white wine at home with a book.
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The Stages of Your Taste in Booze, by Age

From doing kegstands in a frat house basement to drinking a glass of white wine at home with a book.
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