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Wanted: Man to take care of cow that does not smoke or drink.

Wanted: Part-time married girls for soda fountain in sandwich shop.

Girl wanted to assist magician in cutting-off-head illusion. Blue Cross and salary.

Wanted: Preparer of food. Must be dependable, like the food business, and be willing to get hands dirty.

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Gordon: Chargers ‘home,’ but ‘want to get paid’

Two-time Pro Bowl running back Melvin Gordon, who is entering the final year of his rookie deal, wants “to get paid” but also wants “to end up with the Chargers.”
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Want Me, Cowboy – Sinclair Jayne

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Want Me, Cowboy

Sinclair Jayne

Genre: Contemporary

Publish Date: September 22, 2016

Publisher: Tule Publishing

Seller: Tule Publishing Inc.

Cowboy Luke Wilder only wanted a beer at Grey’s Saloon. Instead he ends up in a fight with a brother he never knew and dumped by a fiery red headed bull breeder he only asked to dance. So much for keeping a low profile. But Luke Wilder is stubborn, and no woman’s ever said no to him twice, in business or pleasure. Tanner McTavish is more focused on breeding champion bucking bulls than in making out with cowboys, unless that cowboy’s Luke Wilder. She’s had a crush on him for years, and the Copper Mountain Rodeo could be her chance for a little romance except she needs Luke on her side for a new business opportunity. Flirting and kissing are off limits. Too bad Tanner’s never played by the rules…

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The Under-$100 J.Crew and Nike Sneakers You’ll Want to Wear All Year Long

Spring is that time of year when you go to grab your white sneakers but realize you wore them to the point where half of your shoe separates every time you take a step, the laces are about to snap, and cleaning them off just won’t do the trick anymore. In short, it’s time to invest in a new pair of kicks.



And if you’re like us, you want a pair of sneakers that look cool enough to wear with your favorite dress shirt and, once it’s Friday at 5 p.m., that vintage tee you scored on the cheap a few years ago.

J.Crew Nike Killshot 2 shoes
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Sure, there are tons of great white sneakers that fit the bill you can easily buy online right now. But no one really wants to drop money on a pair that doesn’t quite nail that perfect mix of dressy-meets-casual without looking like you’re heading to the gym for a bodyweight workout. Good news: J.Crew launched its new J.Crew x Nike Killshot 2 sneakers this month, and you can finally buy them online (well, if you’re not trying to buy a size 13).

J.Crew Nike Killshot 2 Sneakers
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Yes, you’ve seen them before, but the brand revamped one of its best-selling pairs of kicks this time around with what it calls a “sail green” swoosh logo. The suede-and-leather upper serves up some simple style with just the right amount of color, which makes them a little easier to dress up or down—we think they’ll look cool with that new spring suit. And if you’re not completely sold on that green Nike logo, you can still get them in the go-to navy-and-white version for the same price. They’re 90 bucks, but they’re the kind of shoes you’ll want to wear until they completely fall apart—that is, if you can get them before they sell out again.

[$ 90; jcrew.com]

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Say You Want Me (Unabridged) – Corinne Michaels

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Say You Want Me (Unabridged)

Corinne Michaels

Genre: Romance

Price: $ 17.99

Publish Date: November 8, 2016

© ℗ © 2016 BAAE Inc.

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Seahawks sue McDowell, want $800K bonus back

The Seahawks have sued former draft pick Malik McDowell, saying he has failed to return bonus money that an arbitrator said he should pay back.
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Girls Just Want To Have Fun 17

These girls take fun to a whole new level with each other. Watch as they explore one another and reach highs they have never experienced before.

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Studio Name: Platinum Media

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Challenge Showdown: Who’s The Last Person Cara Would Want To Face On The Killing Floor?

Cara is in another ‘Challenge’ final — and she has never faced a ‘War of the Worlds’ elimination.

Dear Dr. Romance: I Want The Playgirl, But They Like The “Bad Boy” Type

Dear Dr. Romance: This is something that’s puzzling me for along time. I often do want the “playgirl”, but they like the more of the “bad boy” type.
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What Men Want – Adam Shankman

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What Men Want

Adam Shankman

Genre: Comedy

Price: $ 14.99

Release Date: February 7, 2019

Ali Davis (Taraji P. Henson) is a successful sports agent who’s constantly boxed out by her male colleagues. When Ali is passed up for a well-deserved promotion, she questions what else she needs to do to succeed in a man’s world… until she gains the ability to hear men’s thoughts! With her newfound power, Ali looks to outsmart her colleagues as she races to sign the next basketball superstar, but the lengths she has to go to will put her relationship with her best friends and a potential new love interest (Aldis Hodge) to the test. WHAT MEN WANT is the latest comedy from director Adam Shankman (HAIRSPRAY) and producers Will Packer and James Lopez (GIRLS TRIP), co-starring Tracy Morgan, Richard Roundtree, Wendi McLendon-Covey, Josh Brener, Tamala Jones, Phoebe Robinson, Max Greenfield, Jason Jones, Brian Bosworth, Chris Witaske and Erykah Badu.

© © 2019 Paramount Players, a Division of Paramount Pictures. All Rights Reserved.

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Things You Never Want to Hear the Exterminator Say

You know, when you build your next house you might want to consider using steel instead of wood.

It’s a shame you didn’t get that extended protection rider on your pest protection policy.

I’m sorry, but our worker’s compensation policy specifically excludes “killer termites.”

Do you know anyone who owns a bulldozer?

You’ll need to call the Jurassic Park people. Dinosaurs aren’t on the list of pest problems we handle.

Yeah, I realize I’m from Orkin, but I still need your phone book to call Terminix and All-Pest to come help me with this one.

I need to go back to the office to get a bigger truck.

Do you have someplace you could stay for the next three days?

Do you have a high powered rifle handy?

You wouldn’t happen to have some extra pesticides in storage around the house, would you?


“Exterminator down! Exterminator down! Send backup!!! Extermin…”

“The good news is… you have termites.”

“Do you happen to have a large net?”

“You know, I’m also a taxidermist.”

“Ma’am, I’m afraid you need to let me take the oatmeal raisin cookies with me.”


“This could get expensive.”

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Tony Ferguson’s Wife Warned 911 Operator, ‘I Don’t Want Cops to Get Hurt’

[[tmz:video id=”1_faspppon”]] TMZ Sports has obtained a 911 call made by Tony Ferguson’s wife during an incident in February — and the way she handled the call may have saved Tony’s life … and the lives of several cops.  As we’ve previously…


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Danielle Bregoli Doesn’t Want a Sweet 16 Party

[[tmz:video id=”1_frq1ncfa”]] Danielle Bregoli is too busy growing her business empire to be bothered with a lame-ass sweet sixteen.  We got Danielle Monday at LAX, where our photog asked how she’s celebrating her impending 16th…


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T-Pain ft. Flipp Dinero “All I Want,” Teyana Taylor “Issues/Hold On” & More | Daily Visuals 3.15.19


Source: photo: WENN

T-Pain might not be rocking his signature top hats anymore but whenever he drops something new you gots to pay attention to the Godfather of Auto-Tune.

A few weeks after dropping his last album 1UP, Teddy P. drops some visuals for his Flipp Dinero assisted “All I Want” where his office party goes from 0 to 100 real quick.

Teyana Taylor meanwhile gets retro with it and for her clip to “Issues/Hold On” takes it back to era in which afros reigned supreme, vinyl records caught the soul engulfed in the studio, and pimps and perms went together like peanut and butter. Iman Shumpert was cool with A$ AP Rocky putting his grill all over TT’s physical in this joint?!

Check out the rest of today’s drops including work from Cuban Doll, Iggy Azalea, and more.










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3 Crazy-Comfortable T-shirts You’ll Want to Live in All Spring

We happily endorse the spring uniform of T-shirts, sneakers, and jeans—provided you pick the right ones. With that in mind, we’ve curated our favorite new spring staples, which will take that classic look to the next level.

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Whether you prefer to rock a pocket tee, a henley, or a V-neck, we’ve got you covered. Here are our favorite shirts for spring 2019.

John Varvatos Linen V-Neck Tee

This V-neck is a basic made better. It’s made of super-soft linen, so it’ll keep you comfortable all day. The colors are slightly heathered, and they look great on their own or layered under a jacket or blazer.

[$ 178; johnvarvatos.com]

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Life After Denim League Henley

This henley combines vintage aesthetics with an eco-friendly recycled jersey fabric. It’s a comfortable shirt with timeless style that’s great for running errands and grabbing some beers with friends after.

[$ 72; lifeafterdenim.com]

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Todd Snyder Made in L.A. Pocket Tee

This tee goes a step beyond the typical cotton t-shirt. With subtle elements like a botton on the front pocket and a heathered color pattern. It’s perfect for warm spring days, and it’ll be in heavy rotation through the summer, too.

[$ 68; toddsnyder.com]

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Mystikal Rejects Plea Deal In Rape Case, Lawyers Want Case Dismissed

Source: Photo: Caddo Correctional Center

Mystikal is out on bail while he fights sexual assault charges. However, the New Orleans rapper isn’t taking a plea deal and instead hopes to have the charges dismissed.

Reports TMZ:

The rapper’s lawyer, Joel Pearce, tells TMZ … he recently met with Caddo Parish, Louisiana prosecutors and they offered what seems like a sweet deal. The aggravated rape charge, which carries a life sentence, would be reduced to simple third-degree rape … with a 25-year max sentence. He says they’d also drop the second-degree kidnapping charge.

In exchange, Mystikal would have to plead guilty to felony simple rape … which Pearce says he’s unwilling to do. Offer rejected.

We’re told Mystikal and his defense team believe the alleged victim is lying and has major credibility issues, so they’re ready to play this out in court.

The trial’s scheduled to start in May, but Pearce says plea negotiations are still ongoing.

Mystikal only posted his bond a month ago after being locked up since turning himself in back in August 2017.

These aren’t the circumstances Mystikal expected to find himself in. He previously served six years after pleading guilty to sexual battery and extortion and was released in January 2010.

Photo: Caddo Correction Center

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‘Empire’ Cast Members Feel Betrayed by Jussie Smollett, Want Him Fired

Jussie Smollett betrayed the trust of his “Empire” coworkers and damaged the show’s image, and now several cast members want him written off immediately … according to our sources. We’re told many of the “Empire” actors are “f**king furious” and feel…


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WANT – The 2nd Mini Album – TAEMIN

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WANT – The 2nd Mini Album


Genre: K-Pop

Price: $ 4.99

Release Date: February 11, 2019

© ℗ 2019 SM Entertainment

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What Consumers Want: Gucci, Sneakers, Brand Collabs

MILAN — Gucci is the world’s most desirable brand, according to global fashion search platform Lyst’s fourth-quarter ranking of the industry’s hottest names and products in 2018.
After giving away the top spot to Off-White over the summer, the Italian fashion house regained its position as the most researched label online from October to December.
Analyzing the shopping behavior of more than five million monthly customers browsing and buying items across 12,000 designers and online stores, Lyst compiled its quarterly index, taking into account Google search data, conversion rates and sales, as well as social media metrics, including brand and product mentions and engagement statics.
“We’ve added social media as one of the factors because it’s so influential now,” said Lyst’s chief partnerships officer Jenny Cossons.
“I am sure that most of the success Gucci is having is the fact that at all price points and at all ages, people want to share it. The fact that my children know Gucci but don’t know some of these other bigger, established brands is super interesting. It’s also an adjective in London, people are like ‘That’s so Gucci’ even if it’s not Gucci, so it has transformed culture, it’s beyond fashion now, and I think that’s

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Melo on pending move: I just want to be happy

Carmelo Anthony, speaking during an appearance to see friend Dwyane Wade play against the Knicks, said he hopes to play in Madison Square Garden at least one more time.
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Princess Diaries 3 Is In The Works, Anne Hathaway Confirms: ‘We All Really Want It To Happen’

Anne Hathaway confirms “The Princess Diaries 3” is in the works, and that she and Julie Andrews are both on board to reprise their roles as Mia Thermopolis and Queen Clarisse.

Marie Kondo doesn’t really want you to throw away your books

Bibliophiles can turn the page on being mad at Marie Kondo now.

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How to Get What You Want – Wallace D. Wattles

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How to Get What You Want

Wallace D. Wattles

Genre: Theater

Publish Date: December 12, 2018

Publisher: CDED

Seller: Bookwire GmbH

Learn the real secrets to living a successful life in Wallace D. Wattles' precursor to "The Science of Getting Rich" series. This practical guide is short and to-the-point and lays out the basic concepts of self-improvement, in a simple, easy-to-understand format that anyone can follow.

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Winter Olympic Alpine Skiers Want to Hook Up Most, Says Dating App

PyeongChang’s Olympic village is hook-up central for alpine skiers … who are hitting the dating app, Bumble, as hard as they hit the slopes. Bumble says most competitors — from all countries, not just the U.S. — have seen a 50% spike in swipes since…


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The Wysh list: 10 NHL people and teams that want ‘reset’ from a bad 2018

While many in the NHL will look back on 2018 fondly, the 10 on this week’s Wysh List want to be done with this year and move on to 2019 as soon as possible.
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Black Eyed Peas ft. Nas “Back 2 HipHop,” Lil Jon ft. Kool-Aid Man “All I Really Want For Christmas” & More | Daily Visuals 12.18.18

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Last week Nas and Swizz Beatz linked up for a mesmerizing visual in “Echo” and today the Queensbridge king returns to assist The Black Eyed Peas on one of their tracks.

In the CGI backed visuals to “BACK 2 HIPHOP” the three man group don old school Hip-Hop clothes and gold while Nas’s verse features a rapping sphinx a la I Am…’s album cover. Pretty clever way to include Nas in the video.

Lil Jon meanwhile comes out of hiding and links up with Kool-Aid Man to get in the Christmas spirit in the clip to “All I Really Want For Christmas.” Whose idea was this?!

Check out the rest of today’s drops including work from YBN Nahmir featuring Wiz Khalifa, O.T. Genasis, and more.










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All I Want for Christmas (Unabridged) – Nora Roberts

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All I Want for Christmas (Unabridged)

Nora Roberts

Genre: Romance

Price: $ 4.99

Publish Date: September 28, 2007

© ℗ © 2007 Harlequin Books S.A.

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20 Last-Minute Gift Ideas from Huckberry That Every Guy on Your List Will Want This Year

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Christmas is fast approaching, and it’s time to get down to holiday business. There’s simply no more time to lose; buy now, or risk being the rotten egg at the holiday dinner table. Fortunately, Huckberry has got you covered and is pulling out all the stops to make sure this holiday season is a successful one.

Right now, Huckberry has some great prices on clothes and gear and is offering free shipping in the US. And there’s something for everyone—the adventurer, the foodie, and the fashionista. Most of the Sunski line of shades is marked down 25 percent, from the classic Navarros ($ 43, down from $ 58) to Huckberry’s exclusive take on the Dipseas ($ 55). There’s also a big sale on the ultra-cozy Glerups camp shoes. We particularly love The Boot ($ 133, from $ 155).

There’s more. For the next seven days, Huckberry is introducing its Deal of the Day. The lineup is as follows:

Wednesday 12/12: Buckler’s Grooming Kit 25% off
Thursday 12/13: Select Blankets up to 25% off
Friday 12/14: Biolite Firepit Bundle 30% off
Saturday 12/15: Candles up to 25% off
Sunday 12/16: Chippewa Exclusive 20% off
Monday 12/17: Japanese Chef Knives 15% off
Tuesday 12/18: Reversible French Terry 25% off

These deals will be valid for 24 hours only, starting at 9am PST daily. So if you’ve got your eye on something, you’d best set yourself a reminder.

Still in the dark about what to buy (or ask for) for Christmas this year? Here are a few things we wouldn’t mind finding under our tree.

Form•Function•Form Horween Leather Weekender Watch

The adjustable rugged leather band is set off by the simple sophistication of the Midday Timex watchface. (It also comes in black and chronograph versions, if you want to snazz it up a bit.) We appreciate that the button stud in the band is set up near the watch, so it doesn’t scrape the desk while we type. It’s the little things that make us happy.

[$ 80, huckberry.com]


Pappy & Company Bourbon Barrel-Aged Maple Syrup

We’re talking American maple syrup, harvested in spring 2015 from Bissell Maple Farm in Ohio, that’s aged 6 months in retired Pappy Van Winkle 15-year bourbon barrels. Look for subtle but distinguished flavors of vanilla, butter, oak, and of course, Pappy. It’s great in recipes (maple Sriracha wings!), cocktails, or, we suppose, on pancakes.

[$ 38 for 13 oz.; huckberry.com]


Vuarnet Glacier XL

From James Bond to The Dude, a legendary silhouette for legendary explorers. High-performance, low maintenance, and pure panache, these iconic shades are normally $ 690. Also available in a tortoise shell frame with smoked lenses.

[$ 519; huckberry.com]


White Mammoth Tusk and Turquoise Vein Damascus Knife

If you’re flush in shades and slippers, perhaps you’d care for something a bit more rustic? The entire line of Santa Fe Stoneworks knives is cut up to 30 percent off right now, like this simply stunning specimen. It’s normally well over $ 200.

[$ 175; huckberry.com]


Flint and Tinder Flannel-lined Waxed Trucker Jacket

Waxed cotton jackets look great and work well at keeping water out. But this F and T takes it to the next level by lining it with flannel—all the way down the sleeves.

[$ 220; huckberry.com]


Ethics Supply Co. Peak Bagging Soap

These small-batch charcoal soaps are crafted to recreate the locales of the mountain ranges they represent. The smell of the Grand Tetons soap is reminiscent (see what we did there?) of engelmann spruce, tree moss, and birch pitch.

[$ 14; huckberry.com

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All-Weather Duckboot

Huckberry’s own duckboot is perfect for hiking, whether it’s in the woods or on the streets. 100 percent waterproof, it’s got a sneaker-like rubber sole for comfort and durability. It’s kind of like a Jeep for your feet. 

[$ 180; huckberry.com]



Danner Vertigo 917

Consider this some of our editors’ go-to boot this year. Classy but tough, it’s outfitted with all the technical details that make Danner’s trail boots so popular—but with a lightweight sole and twin gores for easy on and off.

[$ 220; huckberry.com]


W&P Design + Chili Lab Homemade Hot Sauce Kit

Adventurous dudes love hot sauce, so give him the tools to make his own with this easy, self-contained kit. It’s got all the ingredients and supplies to make two distinct, delicious hot sauces: The Forager’s Blend is a red sauce with deep notes of berries, wood smoke, and earth; the Grove Blend is a yellow sauce with bright notes of citrus, green herbs, and cut grass.

[$ 45; huckberry.com]


Upstate Stock American Mohair Beanie

Soft and silky to the touch, mohair is actually renowned for its durability and strength. We really like that the tag comes off so easily. Available in a veriety of colors, these beanies are knitted right here in the USA.

[$ 32; huckberry.com]


Ridge Aluminum Wallet + Money Clip

The perfect size to slip right into your front pocket, it’s thin and small—3.3″x2.2″—but it can carry up to 12 cards. Pure aluminum blocks RFID skimming devices. 

[$ 72; huckberry.com]


Los Poblanos Beard Box

High in the Sandia Mountains of New Mexico, the folks at Los Poblanos Inn & Organic Farm have been hand-making organic grooming products since the 1930s. Created with all natural, USDA certified organic materials, the Beard Box includes sage and cedarwood soap, scented beard oil, lavendar lip salve, and a wooden comb.

[$ 50; huckberry.com]


Give’R 4-Season Gloves w/ Wax Coating

Made for everything from stoking the campfire to ice fishing, these all-weather, all leather gloves are waterproof as well as Thinsulated. Sizes range from small to double XL, so they’re made for everyone. And they come in black, too.

[$ 114; huckberry.com]


This Is Ground Bandito Lifestyle Roll

Man, we need this just to roll up all our cords. This Is Ground always finds creative solutions to everyday problems with well designed, high-quality handmade leather goods, and the Bandito solves a quandary we didn’t even know we had.

[$ 65; huckberry.com]


Mystery Ranch Mission Duffel/Backpack Hybrid – 55L

Flush with features that make it stand out from the rest, the one that we like the most is this hybrid’s oval shape, which not only helps it lay flat for easier packing but lets it rest more comfortable when worn as a backpack.

If you’re looking for a smaller, go-anywhere, do-anything backpack, Mystery Ranch’s Urban Assault ($ 139) is the way to go.

[$ 165; huckberry.com]


Arcade Belt Co. YOSAR Guide Belt

Exclusive to Huckberry, 100 percent of all revenue from the sale of these YOSAR belts goes to benefit Yosemite Search And Rescue.

[$ 30; huckberry.com]


Klhip Ultimate Clipper

Surgical stainless steel and precision crafting make this the world’s sexiest (?!), most efficient nail clipper. Better ergonomic balance creates better control and a more comfortable grip for a smooth, sharp, precise cut so that filing isn’t even necessary.

[$ 70; huckberry.com]


Proof Field Jacket

A modern spin on the M65 Field Jacket used by the military, this is a fantastic top layer that pairs perfectly with a sweater or button-down (or both). We really like that we can access all five pockets—including a secret stash pocket for our phone, wallet, whatever—without unzipping the jacket.

[$ 175; huckberry.com]


GrowlerWerks uKeg 64oz. Stainless Steel Growler

As long as Huckberry keeps selling the uKeg, we’re gonna keep putting it in our gift guides. It’s just that cool of a product. It keeps beer fresh and cold for—literally—weeks, and comes with 10 CO2 cartridges. What adventurous dude wouldn’t love to find one of these under the tree?

[$ 137; huckberry.com]


American Mountain Whiskey Glasses—Set of 4

Made of lead-free handblown glass, each features a unique topographic impression of one of America’s greatest mountain peaks: Half Dome, Denali, Mt. Rainer, and Mt. Whitney. You can also buy these a la carte for $ 30 each.

[$ 65; huckberry.com]


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Chief Keef Reveals 4 Mystery Kids With 4 Different Mothers, Who Want Child Support

Chief Keef just made a shocking revelation in court … he’s got 4 more children under the age of 5, and they all have different mothers who are all seeking child support.  The surprising announcement means Chief’s kid tally is up to a…


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The Best Fall Colognes and Scents You’ll Want to Wear All Year Long

As the weather gets cooler, the scents get warmer. That’s the tradition, anyway: Fall fragrances are known for woody, spicy, or amber notes. Whereas warm weather scents have a fresh, floral lift, fall ones lean more heavily into the cold category, preparing us for the deep and musky tones of winter. The best thing about these transitional colognes and fragrances for fall is that many can work all year long.

If you’re in the market for a seasonal fragrance with subtle warm notes, or if you’re hunting for a year-round scent, consider these options. Some are brand new, some recently revived, and some are longstanding consumer favorites. All of them, however, are the best colognes you can sport this season.

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Arquiste Parfumeur Sydney Rock Pool

Arquiste first released this as a limited edition, but its popularity demanded a fulltime feature. All of the brand’s fragrances summon a setting of the senses. This is one of Arquiste’s most modern takes: 2016, Sydney, golden hour in the sandstone surf. The result is something warm, but expansive—almost like a blissful summer. Best of all, that means you don’t need to put it aside until next fall and winter, either: With Sydney Rock Pool, there’s year-round warmth in orbit. 

[$ 190; arquiste.com]

Courtesy of Arquiste

Blueprint 203

Chances are you already know about Dollar Shave Club’s shaving products. Now the company wants to help you smell really damn good. With its bottle of Blueprint, the brand is venturing into colognes, with two different sets: The 100 “Fresh” trio, and the 200 “Warm” trio. We like Blueprint Warm 203, with its blend of golden musk, vetiver, and sandalwood. It’s a little fresh, like the rest of the white-label collection, but this blue bottle creates a darker, more masculine effect despite its clean first impression. 

[$ 50; dollarshaveclub.com]

Courtesy of Blueprint

Le Labo Thé Noir 29 Solid

All of Le Labo’s scents are solid in that they’re really good. But some of them are also literally solid, as is the case with this Thé Noir capsule. Thé Noir starts with lighter notes like bergamot and fig, it graduates into a base of arguably the best-smelling things in the world (cedar wood, musk, and vetiver) to create a perfect fall balance. Best of all, it’s TSA-friendly, easy to tote in your dopp kit or work bag, and just as easy to apply (rub a sliver of it on your pulse points, or even on your mustache). 

[$ 94; lelabofragrances.com]

Courtesy of Le Labo

Fulton & Roark Ltd. Reserve #6 Perpetua

Speaking of solids, the same goes for Fulton & Roark’s excellent assortment of pocket-size, travel-friendly tins. The newest limited edition run has landed in time for fall: Go for Perpetua and you’ll smell like a mix of cedarwood and mahogany, balanced with bergamot, jasmine, and other notes. Amber seals the deal, preserving Perpetua as a cold-weather classic—one you have to get this year, before the limited supply runs out.

[$ 60; fultonandroark.com]

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Azzaro Chrome

So you want the crispness of bergamot and the sharpness of musk? Consider Azzaro Chrome. The bright blue bottle evokes summer days—a warmth you’ll appreciate as you navigate the plunging temperatures this fall and winter. 

[$ 87 for a 3.4oz bottle; azzaro.com]

Courtesy of Azzaro

Dior Sauvage Eau de Parfum

While Sauvage Eau de Parfum opens with bergamot and fresh lavender, it’s rounded out with Sichuan pepper, star anise, nutmeg, and vanilla. When discussing the balance of these tones, experts reference the warm notes getting depth by the addition of fresher, cleaner ingredients. In the case of Sauvage EdC, it’s truly the most balanced of the lot and great for every season, but these spicy notes make autumn its sweet spot.

[$ 92; dior.com]

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Calvin Klein Eternity for Men

Nobody does mass appeal like CK, and the brand’s Eternity for Men continues to be a bestseller year round. Now’s the best time to wear it, too: It envelops you with herbal, floral, and citrus top notes, but persists with much deeper tones of rosewood, sandalwood, vetiver, and amber. You might just want to wear it for eternity.

[$ 64; calvinklein.com]


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DedCool Series 2 Red (Dakota)

The latest launch from SoCal scentmaker DedCool, Series 2 is a lineup of scents that can weather any season. The best for fall is Red (Dakota), with a woody and amber heart bookended by fresh gardenias, crisp clementines, and sweet wild berries. As a born-and-raised Dakotan, I can tell you that this one deserves its name: It’s as warm and hospitable as the autumnal prairie. 

[$ 130; dedcool.com]

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Coach Platinum

A premium blend of ingredients makes Platinum a real original: It mixes tonka beans, cashmeran, juniper berries, sage, geranium, pineapple, leather, black pepper, sandalwood, and patchouli. It’s a perfect nighttime scent for a dinner date or black-tie affair. 

[$ 92; coach.com]


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VIRTU Vince Camuto

VIRTU debuted this fall with warm notes to commemorate the season: crushed peppercorn, Haitian vetiver, fresh tree moss, Tuscan leather, cedar, and Indian sandalwood. The blend has a crisp complexity to it, though. It’s curiously cool despite its fuller recipe, with fresh notes of Turkish cardamom and papyrus rounding out the top layer. And the leather-wrapped bottle is as much a part of the sensory experience as the liquid inside.

[$ 80; vincecamuto.com]

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Hugo Boss BOSS The Scent

BOSS isn’t shy about this bottle. It’s seductive and sensual, so dab some on before your next date for an enticing scent. You’ll get spicy ginger deepened with the addition of exotic maninka fruit and finished with leather base notes—a recipe for a great night.

[$ 87; hugoboss.com]

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Louis Vuitton L’Immensité

One of five men’s scents launched by Louis Vuitton this year, L’Immendisté isn’t exactly a fall fragrance, but it’s included here to buck tradition. While most seasonal scents evoke a specific mood, L’Immensité was designed to be a limitless scent, one that you can’t attach to any specific occasion. Its fresh blend of ginger and amber finished with grapefruit works in any situation—your girlfriend might even steal this one for herself, too.

[Call for pricing; louisvuitton.com]

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Scent Intense will forever be one of my fall favorites. Anchored by amber, CoSTUME NATIONAL’s best blend combines the broody ingredient with hibiscus, jasmine, and wood notes for a head-turning finish. It’s the kind of fragrance that makes guys stock up on just one bottle and wear it as a signature scent.

[$ 125 for 50ml bottle; us.costumenationalscents.com]


Ralph Lauren Polo Supreme Oud

Supreme Oud is supreme in its warming powers: With notes of smoky Indian oud wood, vetiver, cinnamon, and pink pepper, it’s the scent equivalent of sitting around a crackling fire in late autumn, spiked ciders in hand. With its gilded detailing, it belongs on your top shelf—though you should keep it easily accessible since it’s your new secret style weapon.

[$ 125 for 4.2oz bottle; sephora.com]

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Montblanc Legend

As good in the spring as it is during fall, this transitional scent balances the fruity, the crisp, and the floral (ingredients like lavender, pineapple, red apple, bergamot, and geranium) with heartier, standout ones like tonka beans, sandalwood, and oak moss. If you’re one to have a different scent with each season, you could save some money and rely on the strength and popularity of Legend on either end of summer and winter.

[$ 68; montblanc.com]

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Todd Snyder collaborated with Red Wing Shoes to bring you the Moc Toe Boot. Between the haberdashery and wear-everywhere apparel and accessories Todd Snyder is synonymous with, to the experience Red Wing Shoes has with creating premium work boots (the brand’s been doing it since 1905), you know you’re going to get a great boot that will work just as hard as you do.

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See it: Shop the Exclusive Red Wing x Todd Snyder Moc Toe Boot in Charcoal or Copper for $ 380.

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We’re in the throes of summer, so it’s the perfect time to stock up on must-haves to beat the heat. If your wardrobe can use a little refresh, you have a few great options that not only will help upgrade your style this season, but will save you a few bucks in the process. And if you don’t want to leave your house to do that, good news: The Huckberry Summer Sale is happening right now. From swim trunks, sunglasses, T-shirts, and more, there are plenty of styles to give your summer wardrobe a little boost. Here, we picked some of the can’t-miss deals you should know about right now.

The Dates: July 11-16, 2018

The Deal: Up to 50% off on select styles and free shipping with orders $ 75 and more.

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Sunski Yubas

Designed to last through an epic hike or a weekend on the lake, these sunglasses will give you maximum UV ray protection. Built with a lightweight construction, durable frames, and flexible arms for a snug fit, you’ll never want to take this pair off this summer. Bonus: They look cool as hell.

[Originally $ 55, now $ 44.98; huckberry.com]


SeaVees 08:63 Hermosa Plimsoll

Summer weather means you need some casual sneakers that you can wear around town. We like this SeaVees pair. Paying homage to skateboard culture, these shoes offer a new take on the classic design, designed with a vintage wash and textured linen. Want to mix and match them with your chinos and a button-down, or a pair of trunks? Go right ahead.

[Originally $ 78, now $ 49.98; huckberry.com]


United By Blue Upstream Boardshort

These next few months, you’ll probably be kicking it by the water, and these shorts are a lightweight offering that will keep you comfortable and dry once it’s time to head to grab dinner. Its subtle fish pattern makes this a cheeky pair to wear both in and out of the water.

[Originally $ 68, now $ 39.98; huckberry.com]


Timex The Waterbury

This American classic continues to up the ante with a durable construction and a style that lends itself to any situation. Equipped with a genuine leather strap, a blue backlit dial, and a water-resistant build that protects against spills, splashes, and even light exposure to water, you just might’ve found your new staple.

[Originally $ 103, now $ 82.98; huckberry.com]


Howler Brothers H Bar B Tech Shirt

A short-sleeve button-down that dries fast? A top that won’t instantly get wrinkled? This Howler Brothers tech shirt has all of that covered while making it easy for you to wear from day to night. 

[Originally $ 79, now $ 54.98; huckberry.com]

Check out more summer-ready picks from Huckberry here!

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12 Stylish Swim Trunks You’ll Want to Wear This Summer

The beach is nothing if not a great equalizer. Once you take off your shirt and you’re left with only your swim trunks, everyone knows what’s going on under the hood. And finding the right pair of shorts has never been easier, thanks to more brands designing versatile and stylish trunks that won’t break the bank.


When you’re shopping for new swim trunks, consider a few simple visual tricks: Vertical stripes create the illusion of a longer, leaner frame while horizontal ones (as well as bold patterns) can appear to add bulk. Stick with dark, slimming solids if you have thicker, muscular legs. If your legs are on the smaller side, steer clear of short inseams. These work best for average-height and smaller guys who need to show more skin to look longer. More focused on style? “Navy looks great on everyone and goes with just about everything, and red has been the standard for lifeguards on both coasts since the 1960s,” says Bill Carney, director of apparel at iconic board short brand, Birdwell. “Camo is a style staple that can be worn every summer.”

Whether you want to spend $ 35 or have a little room in your budget, here are a dozen stylish, affordable swim trunks you’ll want to rock in the sun this summer.

Outerknown Apex Trunk By Kelly Slater

We’re not saying your swimwear can make you handle waves like a pro surfer, but these trunks certainly stand up to any swells the ocean throws your way. The durable and lightweight material made from recycled plastic bottles not only offers the comfort of 4-way stretch, but it’s also water resistant, so drying time is minimal once you make it back to shore. 

[$ 145; outerknown.com]

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Patagonia Wavefarer Standup Shorts

Your bag just a got a lot lighter. No need to bring extra shorts when you can wear these quick-drying swim shorts all day. Made from recycled nylon, they’re the ideal piece to transition from beach to barbecue, and the 50+ UPF protection means you don’t have to obsess over sunscreen if you’re too busy having a good time.

[$ 69; patagonia.com]

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Birdwell 310 Board Shorts

You can’t go wrong with these OG surf shorts from the Santa Ana, CA, brand that have been worn by lifeguards and surfers for more than 50 years. The tab closure offers freedom to adjust the fit, nylon offers performance, and the classic camo print actually stands out—in the best sort of way—on the sand.

[$ 79; birdwell.com]

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Bonobos Banzai Trunk

Certain patterns can look a little too precious for the pool. Anchors and flamingos, we’re talking to you. But small geometric shapes like these give off a retro vibe and have a cool factor that doesn’t fade. 

[$ 88; bonobos.com]

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Faherty Brand All Day Short

Consider this pair of shorts the closest a piece of apparel can get to a deep breath of sea air. We appreciate the Zen feels of this laid-back brand known for sun-faded colors like this. Rendered in a soft, stretchy technical fabric—and in a length that hits a few inches above the knee—just add a cotton button front shirt and wear this tailored trunk well after the sun goes down.

[$ 98; fahertybrand.com]

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Vouri Equator Boardshort

If you’ve got an active day ahead of you, these board shorts can take you from your a.m. workout session to a late afternoon swim. The stretchy, anti-odor, and fast-drying fabric keeps you feeling comfortable and prepared for whatever adventures come your way—even if that is just early morning yoga.

[$ 69; vuoriclothing.com]

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Tommy Hilfiger Solid Mid-Length Swim Trunk

Sometimes it’s good to keep it simple. These classic drawstring navy trunks are straightforward, so they’ll go with every color in your closet—from patterns and prints to brighter summer colors—after you dry off. The slightly shorter inseam is just right for average height-and-under guys.

[$ 60; usa.tommy.com]

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Orlebar Brown Bulldog Sport

Along with sunscreen, consider these sophisticated shorts your tropical vacation must. The small pattern, which works for any body type, will stand out when you’re spiking a volleyball on the beach or sipping a frozen drink at the bar. Add a solid black polo when you want to explore after dark.  

[$ 195; orlebarbrown.com]

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Nautica Performance Quick-Dry Swim Shorts

You can’t go wrong with these simple and classic cinched waistband shorts. The bright color is the perfect match for that post-vacation tan you’ve been working on, too.

[$ 40; nautica.com]

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Saturdays NYC x Mr. Porter Colin Boardshort

We like these shorts because the subtle pattern is tonal, so from far away you might not even know there is one until you get closer. The tailored, streamlined fit with only a single back pocket is flattering on everybody.

[$ 95; saturdaysnyc.com]

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LL Bean Classic Supplex Sports Short

Nothing beats a classic performance trunk like this one. Made with breathable performance fabric in UPF 50+, it has all of the attributes you’d want: reliable, versatile, protective, and comfortable in almost any situation.

[$ 35; llbean.com]

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Ralph Lauren Monaco Striped Trunk

Nautical looks are a perennial go-to for guys looking to lighten up their summer style. The horizontal stripes that create the illusion of width are good news for narrow or slimmer frames. The bottom line: They’ll never go out of style.

[$ 85; ralphlauren.com]

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Nora Roberts

Genre: Romance

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Cassandra Baines almost has it all: a flourishing career as one of the youngest English Lit assistant professors at NYU, an apartment in a city she adores, and a close circle of lifelong girlfriends that are like sisters. The only thing she doesn’t have is someone special to share it with. She’s been married to her work since Sean McKinnon broke her heart seven years ago.  Musician and bar owner Sean McKinnon keeps busy – too busy for a love life. He blew it with Cassie all those years ago, and no one has held a candle to her since.  But then one fateful night, of all the people in New York City, Cassandra walks into his bar, and he’s drawn to her as strongly as ever. She wants nothing to do with him, but he’s not going to give up so easily.  Can a bit of New York Christmas magic help two people take a second chance on true love?

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Even Non-Fans Will Want to Wear Rag & Bone’s New Star Wars-Inspired Clothes

The force is strong with Rag & Bone this winter.

The company, whose CEO Marcus Wainwright is a massive Star Wars fan, partneredwith Disney and Lucasfilm for a capsule collection inspired by the franchise's style. The items will be available on December 1—just in time for you to snag a hoodie to wear to the December 15 premiere of he franchise's new film, The Last Jedi.

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A priest was getting ready for a trip to Rome, and a man came to him with a request: “When you get to Rome, could you light a candle for me and my
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The priest agreed to the request. Ten years later, he ran into the man again in a super market. With him were about twelve kids.

“Oh, this is wonderful!” said the priest. “But tell me, where’s your wife?”

“Oh, she’s gone to Rome to blow out the candle.”

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Daddy, Stop Talking: And Other Things My Kids Want But Won’t Be Getting (Unabridged) – Adam Carolla

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6 On-Trend Turtlenecks You’ll Actually Want to Wear this Winter

Even for the most savvy of men, a turtleneck sweater is a bit of a tough sell (despite the fact that generally accepted men’s fashion icons like James Bond

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Why Anybrand’s $99 Sweatshirt Is the Last One You’ll Ever Want to Wear

“I think it’s cool.”

That’s what my friend said when she saw the triumvirate of chalky white smudges on my black sweatshirt. They could have been flour or toothpaste; I wasn’t sure how they got there. But they resembled the fingerprints of a large primate, or Blim Blam.

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Cate Blanchett’s Message to Hollywood’s Harvey Weinsteins, ‘We Don’t Want to F*** You’

Cate Blanchett took a not-so-subtle jab at Harvey Weinstein and other sexual harassers by pointing out women who wear sexy clothes don’t necessarily want to have sex — but in much fewer words. Cate was speaking at the InStyle Awards Monday night in…


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All I Want for Christmas Is You

Lisa Mondello

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Sometimes fate needs a little hand…  Santa Claus is going to have a rough season… Lauren Alexander is raising her daughter alone. Abandoned by her family for her decision to keep her daughter Kristen, she has done a pretty good job for the last six years. Or she thought she had. That's why she is crushed when little Kristen gives up her wish for a toy or goodie and instead asks Santa for a present for her mother. She wants Santa to bring a Daddy. Delivering Daddies isn't Santa's bag.  But this Santa has a plan…  Kyle Preston knows what it is like to be abandoned too. Luckily he found the support of loving adoptive parents and has turned himself into one of the most successful Real Estate developers in town.  Building a house is easy. Building someone's trust is a whole other story. But with a little helping hand, a little Christmas magic can make all the difference in the world. 

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Dear Bridget, I Want You (Unabridged) – Penelope Ward & Vi Keeland

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Genre: Romance

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Publish Date: October 2, 2017

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Gun control debate enters country music community: ‘Is this the kind of world we want to live in?’

The massacre in Las Vegas was at once a national tragedy and a family one.

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Making movies gets more terrifying the older you get, British actress Judi Dench said on Monday, a day after her latest royal comedy drama “Victoria & Abdul” premiered at the Venice film festival. Rough cut (no reporter narration)

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UFC Boss Dana White Doesn’t Want To See Conor McGregor Box Again

Dana White, president of the combat sports league UFC, says that while MMA fighter Conor McGregor impressed him in his boxing outing, he doesn’t want to see him in the square circle again. McGregor was stopped by Floyd Mayweather in the 10th round of their hyped match, which some are praising the Irishman for.

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“I’m so proud of Conor tonight,” White said at the evening’s postfight press conference. “It’s not the fight I thought it would be, it was a completely different fight than I expected. When you get into professional boxing, you guys know, you start four rounds, you go six rounds. He went 10 rounds tonight with arguably the greatest to ever do it.”

But White made something else equally clear at Las Vegas’ T-Mobile Arena — he doesn’t want to see McGregor step into the squared circle again any time soon.

“I would rather he did not,” White said. “This isn’t what he does. He’s a mixed martial artist where he goes in and he fights and he uses all of his weapons, and tonight he was only allowed use his hands. I think he did great tonight, I don’t think there’s anything else left to prove. I would rather he fight in mixed martial arts.”

Our thoughts exactly, Dana White. No offense to Conor McGregor.

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Fans want Missy Elliott statue to replace Confederate monument

Missy Elliott is the queen of “flip it and reverse it.”

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Teen Mom 2’s Chelsea Houska Says She Doesn’t Want Daughter to Spend Time With “Drug-Addicted Father”

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All You Want To Know About Cougar Dating

If you are the one that is looking for a casual hook up than a long-term relationship then cougar dating is the best choice for them. Well, explaining cougar we can say that the older ladies that are interested in making relationships with the younger men are known as “cougar”. Though you do not have the desire to carry the relation for a longer time you have to remember a few things about the dating so that you spend the best time.
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People Want Answers From Diddy Over “Tupac” Allegations

I haven’t seen it, but a new documentary called “Murder Rap” has opened up some deep wounds. In the movie, they allege that Diddy had Tupac killed and Suge had Biggie murdered in retaliation. Now, we know Diddy has long maintained his innocence and the authorities have never come close to arresting the Bad Boy mogul. It seems like a lot of people saw this movie and immediately took it to Diddy on social media. Most people weren’t necessarily looking at him as guilty, but they certainly wanted him to address the allegations. I hope they are addressed too! This can’t be life! Below is the trailer I found online for the movie. FYI: Diddy addressed this movie when it was just a book, calling it “fiction.”

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Reggie Bush — I Want Big Money from St. Louis for My Injury

St. Louis might need to scrounge up some extra cash QUICK, because we’re told Reggie Bush claims the city was playing with fire by installing concrete where players run in slippery cleats, and he’s gunning for a fortune.


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Kourtney, Kendall And Kylie REALLY Want You To Know They Love A Bargain

By looking at all the designer duds that the Kardashian-Jenner clan wears, you’d never guess that they like a good bargain. But this week, we found out they love a sale as much as the next girl. 

Kylie Jenner took a selfie wearing a $ 39 sports bra, Kendall rocked a $ 55 T-shirt and Kourtney wore a sheer black tank for under $ 40. We finally think we can keep up with the Kardashians. 

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Kate Hudson Doesn’t Want to Be Your Lifestyle Guru

Hudson opens up about the workouts that make her look “insane,” her relationships with her exes, and her thoughts on how to be happy. (She’s kind of an expert on the subject.)
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Soulja Boy — I Didn’t Want To Kill Myself … I’m Just REALLY Successful (TMZ LIVE VIDEO)

[[tmz:video id=”0_n7jrpqcw”]] Soulja Boy insists his “I’m going to die soon” Snapchat message was not about committing suicide — it’s just that he’s lived a full, kick-ass life already … at 25.  SB was on TMZ Live Friday to clear the air about…


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Real Men Want Real Love

Men have gotten a bad rap — especially among divorced women who have gotten back into dating again. The word on the street (and on the Internet) is men only want two things: sex, and then more sex.

That might be the common belief, but it’s just not true. Even though we’re a decade and a half into the new 21st century world of romantic relationships, women are still clueless about what men really want. (And men are just as clueless about women. But we’ll cover that topic in another story.)

Here’s how this cluelessness gets started: A newly divorced man goes out with a newly divorced woman. Neither has been out on a date since Bill Clinton uttered the strangest words ever spoken by a U.S. President: “I did not have sexual relations with that woman.” Ironically, having sexual relations with a woman is prominently on the mind of the divorced man. Meanwhile, being frightened about having sexual relations with a new man is near the top of the divorced woman’s thoughts.

So what happens? The newly divorced man comes across as obsessed with sex, because in the early stages of post-divorce dating he is obsessed with sex. Some men have to get that out of their systems before they can settle down into a committed love relationship. That’s why he goes out on more dates than the typical woman, and yes, that’s why he tries to have sex with some of them. He is desperately searching for companionship. To him, having sex is better than no companionship at all.

If women who are new to the dating scene go out with only men who are recently divorced or have suffered recent breakups, then these women get the impression that men are looking for sex. Period. Too often, these women get frustrated with men, and they stop dating. These frustrated women then perpetuate the myth that all men want is sex.

Another thing that adds to women’s confusion is that men approach dating as a numbers game. A typical man believes that he has to date a lot of women in order to find the perfect one for him. Women are more likely to believe in the Prince Charming story, in which the prince will come along at the perfect time. That’s why women aren’t quite so manic about having to go out on a million dates. And that’s why women think men only want to date and have sex, not commit to a relationship.

Get past a man’s desperate early dating behavior, and you can get to the real truth about men. Real men are looking for love. That’s real love, not just sex. Ask single men what they really want, and they say love, not sex. Men want to love, and they want to be loved and respected in return.

What else do men want? Men are visual creatures, so they want a woman who is attractive to them. Yes, that seems (to most women) like men are shallow. But men are not necessarily looking for a runway model. The typical man wants a woman who takes pride in her appearance. And men are proud of having a girlfriend or wife who wants to look her best.

Most men are looking for women who retain their femininity. Men are seeking women who are feminine, gentle and kind. If you’re a woman, don’t try to be “one of the boys.” Men have guy friends for that. Be a woman. Viva la difference!

Men want a woman who is supportive. Many women are too quick to criticize men. A woman thinks her constructive criticism shows a man how much she cares about him. This is a crucial mistake, though. Men are hypersensitive to criticism, and they interpret it as a lack of respect. What they want is a relationship based upon mutual respect and support, not criticism.

But men are not looking for doormats. Most men like a woman who lovingly keeps them on their toes. A woman who keeps him challenged is invigorating and exciting. If you want to keep a man interested, keep him challenged with your spunkiness and your ability to keep him from falling into a rut.

What else do men want in a relationship? Sex. (Surprise!) But here’s the key bit of information that most women don’t know about men and sex: men have sex to bond, fall in love and stay in love. Women have sex after they have bonded and want to express their love.

So in the deepest sense, a man wants to make love to you so he can fall in love with you. Real love — both physical and emotional — is what a man really wants.

Chad Stone is the author of The Love Magnet Rules: 101 Tips for Meeting, Dating and Keeping a New Love. He blogs at www.ChadStone.us.

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Kanye West — I Want to be the Last ‘American Idol’

Kanye West was so pumped and confident after performing for Prez Obama, he mustered up the courage to audition to become the very last American Idol. Yeezy must have figured since he was in SFO anyway, why not go down the road where JLo, Harry Connick,…


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With the holidays quickly approaching, this two-day motorcycle trip with the “Matrix” star will be on some people’s wish lists.

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‘Dogg Pound 4 Life’ Movie Hits Wall — Suge Knight, Labels Want a Cut (VIDEO)

[[tmz:video id=”0_eqf3aaeu”]] “Dogg Pound 4 Life” — the biopic based on Tupac, Snoop Dogg and Tha Dogg Pound – is in jeopardy because Suge Knight and others want to cash in on the project, but Daz Dillinger ain’t having…


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All I Want: Animal Magnetism Series #7 (Unabridged) – Jill Shalvis

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Publish Date: October 6, 2015

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Wake-Up Call For Mom Who Says She Doesn’t Want To Be A Mom Anymore

Heather, a mom of four, lost her mother and oldest daughter within months of each other. She has been so devastated that she admits she has “checked out” from her remaining three daughters and lost her purpose in life.

In the video above, Dr. Phil looks at what she has told herself or others:

“I should just give up.”
“I don’t want to be a mom.”
“I’m failing my family.”
“I’m completely broken.”
“No point in taking care of myself.”

Dr. Phil asks, “If that’s what you’re saying to yourself over, and over and over again, what possible outcome could you have?” Pointing out how powerful her internal dialogue is, Dr. Phil explains, “We don’t react to what happens in life; we react to what we say to ourselves about what happens in life … Grief is not a disease. You are not broken. You don’t have the right to curl up in a ball and sit on the sidelines. You have a responsibility to put one foot in front of the other and behave and think your way through this.”

How can Heather overcome her pain and move forward with purpose — for her own sake and for her daughters? Watch more as Dr. Phil gives her the tools on Wednesday’s episode, “A Mother of Four Who Says: ‘I Don’t Want to Be a Mom Anymore.’”

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The beginning of each fashion season is like back to school: You plan your outfit the night before, ready to showcase your new wardrobe to all of your friends (well, colleagues) after a long holiday. As Allure‘s fashion team is in the midst of runway shows, we’ve curated our fall-fashion wish lists.
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Drake Talks Meek Mill Beef: “This Is How You Want To Play It?”

Drake sat down for an increasingly rare interview with The Fader for its 100th issue. Of course, he talked his beef with Meek Mill, an he let the chopper spray. 

Drizzy brought the situation up without the writer even having to ask, starting with when Funkmaster Flex pump faked everybody.

“I’m just gonna bring it up ‘cause it’s important to me,” Drake told The Fader. “I was at a charity kickball game—which we won, by the way—and my brother called me. He was just like, ‘I don’t know if you’re aware, but, yo, they’re trying to end us out here. They’re just spreading, like, propaganda. Where are you? You need to come here.’ So we all circled up at the studio, and sat there as Flex went on the air, and these guys flip-flopped [about how] they were gonna do this, that, and the third.”

Then, when Drake dropped “Charged Up, ” there no immediate retort.

Says The Fader:

When a reply to “Charged Up” didn’t come, Drake could hardly believe it. “This is a discussion about music, and no one’s putting forth any music?” he says, speaking with a furrowed brow, as if reliving his incredulity. “You guys are gonna leave this for me to do? This is how you want to play it? You guys didn’t think this through at all—nobody? You guys have high-ranking members watching over you. Nobody told you that this was a bad idea, to engage in this and not have something? You’re gonna engage in a conversation about writing music, and delivering music, with me? And not have anything to put forth on the table?”

Taking offense to Meek Mill failing to have worthy retaliation in the chamber, he figured he had to make a song that have vitriol, and could get radio play (see: “Back To Back”).

It was then that he decided to just go ahead and do another song. “I was like, ‘I’m gonna probably just finish this.’ And I know how I have to finish it. This has to literally become the song that people want to hear every single night, and it’s gonna be tough to exist during this summer when everybody wants to hear [this] song that isn’t necessarily in your favor.”

And there you have it.

The 100th issue of The Fader hits newsstands on October 27. Peep the full cover story, including his thoughts on ghostwriting, right here. Video of the cover shoot on the flip.


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What It’s Like For One Dad Whose Son Says: ‘I Want To Become A Woman’

Recently, a 22-year-old named Zach made a confession to his father, Gary: “I want to become a woman.”

“I actually lost my mind,” says Gary about his reaction when he heard Zach’s news. “I was completely caught off guard … He’s supposed to be a man!”

Gary, who is biologically Zach’s uncle but has been raising Zach since he was two days old and considers him his son, says he’s been unable to sleep or eat, and even feels sick to his stomach envisioning Zach as a woman. “It makes me feel like I failed in raising a man,” he explains. “I love Zach no matter what, but I don’t know if I can take it. It’s very tough. I feel like Zach has left me.”

In the video above, Dr. Phil asks Gary, “What do you say to yourself about this?”

“I failed,” Gary responds. “I just feel like I lost him, like he’s gone.”

When Dr. Phil asks if Gary has made any effort to educate himself about what it means to be transgender, Gary admits, “I don’t know how to understand it … It’s not OK. I love Zach, I don’t know how to take him as a girl. It just seems like I failed.”

On Thursday’s episode of Dr. Phil, Gary meets Zach as Steph – watch more here. 

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Ariana Grande: ‘I Want To Make A Difference’

After performing at a NYC concert, Ariana Grande tells Access guest correspondent Louis Burgdorf what she has yet to accomplish.

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Radiohead Want To Finish Work On Upcoming Album

Radiohead drummer Philip Selway says that the band is back in the studio and wants to finish working on their new record. “We’ve got quite a busy autumn coming up,” Selway told the Press Association. “We want to finish a record and that’s where we’re at. We’re just launching ourselves into it. Being asked about Radiohead never becomes a tiresome question . . .”
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Does Doe B’s Mother Want To Talk To T.I.?

This situation with T.I. and Doe B is not going away. I promise. There is more to come, but in the meantime, I am getting word that Tip may want to talk to Doe’s mother! Her name is Shirley Thomas and she sent a very respectful “kite” to Tip, a source has revealed to me. Well, check out what she has to say. I wonder if the call request is because of this notion that T.I. owes Doe B. Click here for that story. Remember Tip COMPLETELY denies that he owes Doe anything and says that he made no money off of him either. Peep it.

Meanwhile, Tip has dropped this dope EP called “Da Nic” – click here to read it.

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Cameron Jordan Police Report — ‘I Can Have Any B*tch I Want’

TMZ Sports has obtained the Cameron Jordan police report — in which one witness claims the New Orleans Saints player stated in the nightclub, “I can have any bitch that I want.” Jordan is under investigation for allegedly slapping a woman’s ass at…


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This year’s Venice Film Festival (La Biennale di Venezia) shines the spotlight on romance. But it’s not about your typical, run of the mill love stories, more like passion with a twist. Whether it is a group’s love of mountain climbing, as in Everest, or the devotion child soldiers bestow on their commandant in Beasts of No Nation, or even a futuristic view of attraction as a virus in Equals, love always seems to come at a price here on the Lido.

No film explores that more deeply, and darkly, than Michael Rowe’s Early Winter, screening in the Venice Days program. Rowe’s lead characters are two functioning people, complete with their own flaws and very human set of mistakes, yet when David (Paul Doucet) and Maya (Suzanne Clément) come together, they bring out the worst in each other, and themselves. Or perhaps that’s just how all couples are, once the fairy tale of romance wears off and day to day life sets in…

Discovering the filmmaker behind the work is what I love most about what I do. In person, Rowe is a kind, honest and thoughtful man. In fact, I expected someone different, darker perhaps, more angry. But that’s the thing about human beings, we’re not just one thing, one personality throughout; we are a blend of many moods, many thoughts and conflicting ideas. It is what makes life, and cinema, so interesting.

I’ll preface this by saying that I watched it when I was five but your film reminds me of Scenes from a Marriage, by Ingmar Bergman… That film has always stayed with me, my parents made me watch it.

Michael Rowe: I hadn’t thought of Bergman, I love Bergman. That’s a wonderful film, terrifying.

Your film is terrifying too. Two people who need each other but are so damaging to one another. Who have been your filmmaking influences?

Rowe: Influences in general are Bergman, of course, and Cassavetes, Roy Andersson, Catherine Breillat, there are others but those are my main ones. And in literature Raymond Carver is a big influence.

What is your background?

Rowe: I’m from a small town two hours from Melbourne, in Southern Australia. In filmmaking terms I consider myself Mexican, I don’t consider myself Australian. I’ve lived in Mexico for twenty-two years. Filmmakers like Carlos Reygadas, Amat Escalante, who is a good friend, Fernando Eimbcke, I think we influence each other in our work. And Michel Franco.

How did you direct in French?

Rowe: I do have some notions, I can understand the language, I studied four years of French, years ago. I wrote the dialogue in English and then sat down with the actors and with their help, translated it into French.

Why did you make your female character, Maya so unlikable, she’s quite a horrible person. Why not make him that way?

2015-09-05-1441436620-8773000-20760Michael_Rowe__Early_Winter.jpg Rowe: Because that’s the way she was. I don’t think about politics when I’m writing, it comes from somewhere else. And I think that if you have two people in a film, it’s about those two people it’s not about all women all men. I think we undergo a tyranny in the world of culture, this pseudo sociological analysis and criticism that we’re subjected to. Everything has to be able to be analyzed and be politically correct from a Marxists, feminist, socialist POV. No, I mean, people are bad — men and women — and people are good — men and women — and most of us are good and bad, in different contexts.

It is also about the situation. She’s trapped in a way…

Rowe: Yeah, she has a horrible life, she’s with this guy who is not the love of her life, and she’s got these kids and she lives a long way from home. She does her best, and she doesn’t have a particularly easy personality — it’s real life.

Was she difficult to write?

Rowe: All writing is difficult for me. It’s the part I hate. Because you are on your own, you’re completely in the dark, you’re six months away from knowing if it works or not. You can’t ask advice of anyone because no one knows. It’s a difficult and lonely process. I don’t like it but it’s the only process that’s important. The most creative process by a hundred percent, compared to directing which is also nice, it’s much nicer you have people around you. It’s much more social, I love it. Writing I suffer through it a lot but want to tell my version of truth. I want to be honest in what I film and I can’t be honest if I’m filming something that I didn’t write. It’s very important to me to really be the creator. I think the heavy creative work is in the writing.

How did you find your two lead actors?

Rowe: I cast Paul [Doucet] and he brought tears to my eyes in the casting, in a scene with no dialogue. He’s awesome. I knew he was in. There was another actress attached to the film and she couldn’t confirm dates. First of all we had to push the whole shoot by ten months because she was having a baby, and said a month after the birth she would be ready to shoot. We waited and after those ten months when she couldn’t confirm dates again I thought, we’re not going to use her. I sat down with Paul, we create together, when I film it’s just the actors and me, and I said, “who do we have in Canada that could pull off this role?” And Paul said Suzanne Clément and I said, “totally!” as soon as he said it, I thought it would be amazing. I think that sometimes things happen the way they’re meant to happen. We had to wait ten months in order to get Suzanne, that’s fine. That’s what we had to do. I would have waited two years. She’s the best possible actress for the role.

How do you feel about cinema as a means to help us understand the world?

Rowe: I believe it should. I like to try to do that in my films. How to understand ourselves, how to understand the world, I think it has that potential and I think that’s always what I’m aiming for.

Although you say you’re not into being politically correct, what are some themes or subjects you won’t touch in your films?

Rowe: I don’t like violence and I won’t do that kind of a film.

So you won’t be making the next Transformers?

Rowe: No, I don’t know…

You would make a very different Transformers, it would be a bit Kafka-esque.

Rowe: It would be so interesting! If they would give me Transformers I would do something really cool. But yeah, I don’t like violence. Sometimes I’d like to do comedy just because I would be so much nicer to myself during the six months of writing. It would have to be a very serious comedy. What I’m interested in is finding out how we can live our lives in the best way possible. Trying to get light moments in there, but I don’t think I can do that in a comedy. And I don’t know if my natural temper is that way.

The world isn’t much of a comedy these days…

Rowe: That’s the thing, it’s a little heavy and it’s not gonna get much better in the next twenty years… It’s not a moment for that. Comedies distract you and make life a bit more bearable but I don’t like looking away from problems. Comedies don’t teach. You laugh and then you go home and the problems are still there.

Is there a film you remember watching as a child?

Rowe: I remember seeing E.T. in a cinema when I was about 11 or 12 and I remember thinking that was the best imaginable possible film ever.

Three words that describe you?

Rowe: What a difficult question! Gentle, I wanna say, and if I reduce it to a single word it will lose — someone-who-feels-other-people’s-pain-very-intensely — “empathetic” is the actual word but it’s not the same thing… And loving.

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What Men Want, According to Online Dating

I’m trying this online dating thing. You see, I’m late 30s and almost officially divorced. As a single mom, I don’t have much options meeting men and when I do go out, guys in their mid-20s flock to me. It’s sweet but not really practical.

So here I am, finally splashing in the big kid pool called dating. I wasn’t sure what men wanted at my age. I mean, I had been monogamous for years and so I didn’t know what to expect. I signed up for a few sites, and low and behold, I have learned a few things about what men want, according to online dating. I thought it would be conversation, company, and maybe sex.
Turns out it’s not exactly what I had expected.

Yard Work:
“I’m looking for a woman to go fishing with and do yard work. I hope she enjoys it!”

This was a message I received from a man.

Note, if you have ever seen me with a weed whacker, you would know that enjoying yard work + Laura is virtually impossible.

Apparently men don’t want good conversation, they want someone to pick those damn weeds!

Answer Their Damn Messages:
“We could have had something good together!”

I hadn’t responded to the 50th email of his so he was angry about all of our romantic tensions dying.

Apparently, men want to be acknowledged just like women, even if they’re stalkers.

Find Good Plastic Surgeons:
The first message I received from one man was: “I love your tits. Where did you get them done?”
Apparently, men want to know the names of good plastic surgeons for their future ex-wives I’m assuming.
P.S. They’re real, Kiddo.

No Games, No Drama:
No games. No drama. I’m no drama. I’m no games. I’m not here for games.
The game and drama speak is endless. Men shout from their online profiles: NO DRAMA.

Apparently, men are becoming VERY serious about their online dating and attempting to cover up their endless need for drama with a refusal of said need.
Everyone knows that when thou protests much there is something to hide.

A Foot Rub:
“I would love someone to rub my feet.”
Apparently, this guy’s concubine was out to lunch and he just needed a fill-in.
Hey if the pay is good…why not?

More Kids: But In His Order:
“I want more children. A boy first and then a girl, and a year apart total.”
Apparently, this is a baby-making service and not an online dating tool. I wonder how he planned on guaranteeing the gender of the kids?

I’ve Been So Blessed:
I messaged one man saying hello. He got back to me stating that “I am incredibly blessed with the ability to already find two people to talk to and so I will be closing all opportunities at this time.”

Apparently, he wasn’t blessed with two women to date but blessed with a gift from God or the ability to sound like a contestant in the Miss America contest.

At this rate, I may not be meeting quality men but at least I’m “learning” so much and laughing about it!

The Woman who has Real Breasts & Hates Yardwork

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Do We Really Want Equal Pay?

By Ann Friedman

The other day a little girl asked Hillary Clinton whether she’d be paid as much as a man if she were elected president, a frustrating reminder that the gender-based wage gap persists, even for women at the very top of the game.*

The line you hear, over and over, is that among full-time workers, women are still paid 77 cents for each dollar that men make. But for many women of color the gap is much bigger. According to the National Partnership for Women and Families, “In the 20 states with the largest number of African American women working full time, year round, pay for African American women ranges from 49 to 70 cents for every dollar paid to white, non-Hispanic men in those states.” As low as 49 cents for each dollar pocketed by white men. And that’s just the disparity in paid work. In countries across the world, women do more work than men — much of it for no compensation at all.

But as an activist goal, the demand of “equal pay for equal work” has never seemed less radical. In an era when inequality is rampant and wages are stagnant, the demand for equal pay seems willfully ignorant of the fact that equal pay with men won’t help the working poor, who aren’t paid a living wage regardless of gender. Even for professional-class women, “equal work” increasingly requires so many hours that the price of “equal pay” is too high, especially for women with health concerns or caretaking obligations.

Detractors often acknowledge that there is indeed a wage gap, then chalk it up to women’s choices. They add caveats to that 77 percent: “But we need to know how much of that is because of choices that people make over working hours, what job they do, the flexibility they might prefer over pay and so on, and then see what’s left which might be the result of direct discrimination,” writes Tim Worstall in Forbes. As if needing flexible hours or taking a job in a field traditionally dominated by women are acceptable reasons to make less money. As if women’s labor is worth less.

Most of us — myself included — have been thinking far too narrowly when it comes to why we’re really enraged by the wage gap. It’s not that we’re frustrated at making so little progress toward pay equality. It’s that we’re playing a game we can’t ever win. Even if women are paid equally to men in their occupations, “equal pay for equal work” is a way to make the best of a bad paradigm, a world in which most of us aren’t paid enough and everyone works too much. If you waved a wand and granted all women equal wages to men, it still wouldn’t solve what I consider to be the worst labor problems in the modern workforce. That no one can live on America’s minimum wage, even if (and it’s a big if) they work as many hours as humanly possible. That without meaningful subsidies, child care is prohibitively expensive. That working hours per week, even for salaried workers, have ballooned. That women still take on a disproportionate amount of labor that is completely uncompensated.

Last month, three feminist women of color — Bardot Smith, Lauren Chief Elk-Young Bear, and Yeoshin Lourdes — started a hashtag, #GiveYourMoneyToWomen. Their suggestion was that, rather than spend your money to try to elect the right politicians or support charities, we should send it directly to women who need it. They began tweeting links to PayPal and Square Cash accounts, and asking men to send them money. “For me the goal is a drastic cultural shift, to where what we’re doing is normalized,” Lourdes says in a conversation between the three women at Model View Culture, “so that all of women’s contributions command direct access to resources and without question. This is how things always should’ve been.” It is a way of questioning what sort of work we consider worthy of compensation. Their radical suggestion is that women be paid for all duties they are expected to perform for free: providing emotional support, putting up with catcalls, turning unintentional insults into teachable moments — the list goes on.

The hashtag was also a critique of predominantly white feminists who equate equality in the corporate world with overall equality. To focus on leaning in and breaking the glass ceiling, says Chief Elk-Young Bear, is to “actually subsume yourself more into patriarchy, more into these institutions, mimic the systems that have created the disaster world we live in.”

It’s easy to focus on a number like 77 percent — which is rage-inducing on its own — and ignore the thorny and interlocking problems that contribute to it. I care about short-term solutions like fixing workplace culture and figuring out how to negotiate better. I’m glad Obama created that task force on the pay gap. But our goal shouldn’t just be wage parity. It should be a reexamination of how people are expected to work, and how they are compensated for it.

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This Foolproof Guide Will Help You Get Out Of Things You Don’t Want To Go To

It begins innocently enough.

Your neighbor casually mentions an upcoming BBQ and you respond that it sounds like fun. The conversation turns to golf or harpoon guns or something else banal and you forget about the BBQ. Next thing you know, your family is responsible for bringing the potato salad to an all-day birthday party in a park across town. At the same time as the Niners game. And it’s the playoffs. And you hate potato salad.

We’ve all found ourselves committed to social events that either sounded like a good idea at the time but something came up, or that we were roped into against our conscious will. Bound by merciless societal norms, backing out sans excuse isn’t an option.

To help the over-committed un-commit gracefully, we’ve partnered with US Cellular to bring you a step-by-step guide to smoothly getting out of an undesirable party, shower, or event. To avoid awkward run-ins with the host in the future, read carefully and don’t skip a step:

1. Display Genuine Regret

First and foremost, you have to convey how unfortunate it is that you won’t be able to make it. The whole plan will fall apart if you don’t sell your regret. It reassures the host that you’re only skipping out because of unforeseen, uncontrollable outside factors. If you’re having a hard time with the delivery, channel your inner Ryan O’Neill or Tom Hanks (and not so much your Space Odyssey HAL).

2. Finely Tuned Excuse

A good excuse should be specific, but not too specific. Specific enough that it seems credible, but not so overly detailed that it feels forced. Illness is fine, but it’s tougher to give advance notice of an illness and you don’t want to inconvenience the party thrower unnecessarily. Instead, stick to events that came up without warning that take precedence for an obvious reason, like work-related projects or business trips. If necessary, you can also use family members as an out — blame it on the spouse or kids.

3. Pledge Future Commitment

This one is tricky because you don’t want to land yourself in the same predicament. Nevertheless, showing an interest in future plans reinforces step #1 and can often allow you to take the initiative. If your neighbor always throws BBQs on game day, you can propose something that fits your schedule better. If it doesn’t work out, it becomes more of a mutually unfortunate thing than just you being reticent.

4. Follow-up

The follow-up is key. Repeat steps #1 and #3 (not step #2 — remember, no over-selling), and reinforce the fact that you were genuinely interested. A simple text asking how it went usually works best.

5. Don’t Screw It Up

If you had to back out of the commitment for a less than savory reason (not everyone thinks football is as important as you), you want to make absolute sure you don’t screw it up by Tweeting “Touchdown” 10 minutes into the BBQ when you’re supposed to be at your spouse’s work function. Your digital trail is more closely watched than you probably realize. It also helps to have support from your family which brings us to…

6. Rehearse Alibi With Family

Your kids go to school together, your spouses go to the same gym, and you know people who know the same people. To make sure you don’t reveal conflicting stories, it might be helpful to rehearse the established alibi with the family.

7. Revel In Your Guilt-Free Freedom

Look, at the end of the day, the fact is that time is precious. Don’t spend your life doing things you don’t want to do. We all have to face uncomfortable social situations from time to time, so it’s best to do so with a plan. A well-crafted strategy will let you enjoy your activity of choice with peace of mind and ensure that you aren’t burning bridges or hurting anyone’s feelings. If you executed said plan well, make sure you enjoy the moment.

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Dr. Dre & Ice Cube Want Off Suge Knight Hit-And-Run Lawsuit

Before Straight Outta Compton rose to a historic box office weekend, there was Suge Knight killing Terry Carter nearby the set of a promotional video spot used to promote the film.

Although N.W.A members Dr. Dre & Ice Cube were on location, they feel their presence did not give just cause to Suge Knight’s behavior and they both have filed motion to get their names removed from the wrongful death lawsuit.

Via The Hollywood Reporter:

The lawsuit against those involved with Straight Outta Compton alleges that the defendants should have known about the tensions between Dr. Dre and Knight and should have made security provisions to create a safe environment. It’s also alleged that Dr. Dre and Cube are vicariously liable for Sloan’s conduct.

In a demurrer filed last week, Dr. Dre and Cube say they committed no malfeasance, that their only affirmative act was a “specific request” that Sloan direct Knight to leave camp. This, they say, “did not create undue risks for anyone, let alone Carter.”

The two also say they owed no duty to Carter, that Knight’s assault wasn’t foreseeable, and raise the prospect of what might have happened if they allowed Knight to stay at base camp.

According to their motion, “These allegations plainly demonstrate that allowing Suge to remain at the base camp posed a serious risk that Suge could have injured someone at the camp — including Dr. Dre, Bone or one of the numerous cast and crew working on the film. Certainly, the risk that Suge might leave the base camp and proceed to his fatal confrontation with Carter was no more foreseeable than the possibility that Suge would injure or kill someone else if he had been permitted to stay.”

The former N.W.A members represented by attorney Alexander Cote say that there’s no proximate cause connecting their actions to Carter’s fatality, and argue that public policy and common sense can’t possibly demand “tolerating the presence of a dangerous and violent criminal with a grudge.”

Suge Knight is currently awaiting trial for murder of Carter and attempted murder of Sloan.

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Want To Have Better Orgasms? Here’s What You Need To Know

Imagine being sexually active for your entire adult life and never having an orgasm.

For Loly, a woman in her mid-twenties living in France, that scenario was a reality. Even though she was healthy, sex-positive and actively looking for ways to achieve orgasm, she didn’t find a way to do it until she came across an exercise that changed her life forever. 

Of course Loly isn’t the only person — female or male — who has trouble with orgasming. Even though almost all of us are physically capable of having them, that doesn’t mean we are having them. And for those of us who can orgasm, all too often they can still be hard to come by, show up too soon or take forever to achieve.

So, for the latest HuffPost Love+Sex Podcast, host Noah Michelson (helming the show by himself this week due to co-host Carina Kolodny being out of the studio) went in search of tips, tricks and — ultimately — the truth about how everyone can achieve orgasms. And not just any orgasm but the very best orgasms possible. 

To help him in his quest, Michelson chatted with Jenny Block, author of the recently published book O Wow! Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasm, and Ian Kerner, sex therapist and author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide To Pleasuring A Woman:


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Do Men Over 50 Only Want Younger Women?

Women ask me all the time about what they’re supposed to do about the men out there who say they only want younger women in their profiles.

I remember seeing it too but I never let it stop me from favoring a man and it shouldn’t stop you either.

But the question has always intrigued me so I did a little research to find out more about why this is happening and whether or not it’s true.

I started with an old boyfriend of mine who is 11 years older than me.

He told me it was an ego thing. He felt like women who were younger would make him feel more youthful and keep him active.

He and I were from completely different generations. Although he was on the cusp of being a boomer, he was actually at the tale end of what’s called the Silent Generation.

Some of our values and views of life were different and that created conflict, which ultimately ended our love relationship.

We’ve stayed friends but when we broke up, I suggested that he start dating women closer to his age, sharing that he’d have more in common with him than he and I did.

At first he taken aback, but guess what? He now dates women whose ages are within five years of his.

It turns out these women were not only great … they also kept him on his toes, often outdoing him when it comes to activities.

It just took someone gently pointing out the benefits for him to make the switch.

Next I went to my friend Ron who has taught me so much about men and what they are looking for.

When I posed this question to him, he said men have this idea of what they want but most men still look at women their own age and will contact them regardless of age if they are attracted to their picture online.

When he was dating, Ron would date women up to five years older than he was. His girlfriend now is about a year older than he is.

He told me the problem is women post pictures that make them look old. (Sound familiar? Think of all the men you thought looked old enough to be your grandfather!)

He said that alone stopped him from ever looking at a woman’s profile regardless of her age.

But if a woman’s look appealed to him, he’d view her profile and contact her if he liked what he saw.

I talked to my old high school boyfriend about this subject since I knew he’d dated younger women.

By the way, he is the ultimate handsome bad boy and women often drop their numbers written on business cards and napkins into his hand. They even do it when he’s having dinner with another woman.

Anyway, after his marriage ended, he admits he checked out younger women. He thought it would be fun.

He found he had absolutely nothing in common with them. And once the lure of sex wore off, he was bored.

He went back to women closer to his age as well.

I’ve brought up this older man/younger woman subject a lot to more men than just these three and their answers are similar to what I’ve shared with you.

So what can you do to get these guys’ attention in your profile?

You must have a fantastic picture that makes you look like you have great energy and are fun.

Your profile has to trigger a man’s heart to say, Hey, she might be the one. She sounds AMAZING!

When you read your profile, does it make you sound amazing or is it a resume of who you are?

And finally, you have to invite a man to write you without demands attached if he’s interested.

Lisa Copeland is known as the expert on over 50’s dating. She’s the best-selling author of The Winning Dating Formula For Women Over 50 and her mission is to help as many women around the world as she can discover how to have fun dating and finding their Mr. Right after 50. To get your FREE Report, “5 Little Known Secrets To Find A Quality Man,” visit www.findaqualityman.com.

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I’m a 51-year-old married mother to twin teenage daughters. I am blessed to have many girlfriends — mostly married, several single — and feel like I’ve been a good friend to them, regardless of their marital status. Kind of like Stephen Colbert’s “I don’t see color.”

Or am I fooling myself?

After my article on women without children in midlife went viral and I got several requests to write about single women in midlife, I wondered … Am I as inclusive as I think toward my single female friends? Am I making assumptions or being insensitive at times?

So I polled over a dozen of these women and got some pretty consistent feedback. Here is what single women want their married friends to know.

1. Yes, it can be tough to be single in midlife
There clearly are challenges to being single in midlife, from the merely practical to the more deeply personal.

Some daily tasks are just plain difficult when you live on your own. Stephanie* explains: “It is harder to get stuff done around the house; there’s just as much work but only one person. There’s no handy husband and you often run the risk of being ripped off by workmen you hire. When you have to move or lift things, you have to call someone for help. It has to be planned, not spontaneous. You also have to lean on friends for a ride to or from some doctors’ appointments — a colonoscopy buddy.”

Single mothers in particular feel the weight of responsibility managing so much on their own: “A lot rides on my shoulders. I’m worn out being the initiator in my business, in parenting, on the home front, and for the whole personal side of my life. Just too many decisions to make morning, noon, and night,” says Bonnie.

Gertrude agrees, wishing she had a partner to lean on, “It would be nice if someone was waiting to see me at the end of the day, to give me that warm hug and to offer support when I am going through something.” Nights can be lonely: “You have a lot of lunches with married friends because dinner time is for their families. Sometimes that means you are home alone on a Saturday night, unless you have lots of single friends,” explains Stephanie.

Family members may have unfair expectations when it comes to their single middle-aged relatives, especially when they don’t have children, like Stephanie: “Even your parents treat you differently when you are single and childless, or at least mine do. Despite the fact that my parents are retired and in good health, they have always expected me to use my limited vacation time to travel to them for the holidays or other visits, even when I have had better accommodations for a visitor than they do. I crave the opportunity to entertain my family in my house, to show them that I can cook, decorate for the holidays, and be a good hostess.”

Some, like Gertrude, resent the pity: “Holidays with the family have been awkward many times, especially when my young niece and nephews have their significant others with them. ‘Poor Auntie,’ still alone on the holiday — they don’t say it, but I sense this is what they think.”

And traveling alone can be awkward. “I love to travel and many trips that I have gone on included couples. Some couples try to include me in events, but I do feel like the third wheel sometimes,” explains Gertrude. Tracy is lucky to have a travel companion but she gets grief for that: “My best friend and I have been accused of being lesbians because we don’t date, we take vacations together, and spend a lot of time together. I don’t get it. We enjoy each other’s company — who else are we supposed to spend time with?”

2. Please include me in your social plans — I promise, I won’t “throw off” the balance
Navigating social occasions can be challenging, even demeaning at times. “I love being invited to go along with friends, whether they are couples or a group of people, but I find many people ‘count’ the group to make sure it is ‘even.’ Or they invite you and another single woman and seat you together as though the two women were a couple,” says Sue. “Others feel sorry for the single woman and always invite a single man to go along (rarely the right idea). I remember being invited to a wedding of a colleague and being seated with her grandparents and their friends because there were ‘no other single women there’ when I would have much preferred to be with young couples.”

Katie agrees, “I have a friend who always talks about how she and her husband and this couple and that couple went out for a fun evening. It reminds me that I don’t bring the requisite male to the mix, therefore mess up the balance.” Anne adds: “I usually enjoy your husbands, partners and wives, so when I say, ‘bring him or her,’ I mean it. Why can’t the three of us go to dinner?”

Stephanie has seen a difference in the way she’s been treated socially when she’s had a significant other: “I am used to going to events alone and being around lots of couples, so I would love to be included. I am not sure why inviting a single person is perceived as throwing off the party. And at times when I have been in a relationship, it is amazing how much more I was included in social events.”

Helaine, who has kids, felt the shift after her divorce, “What I don’t understand is how before we all had plans as a family, but now no. Since you’re not friends with my ex, why did you stop inviting us over or accepting requests for family plans? Why can’t a married family still make plans with a divorced family?”

Ellie yearns for inclusion: “I would rather be asked to the dinner party, gala, concert, etc. and go alone, than to find out later and have friends say, ‘it was all couples, and I thought you would be uncomfortable!'”

3. Girlfriends, know that I rely on your friendships
Time and again, single women describe the added importance of their female friendships in their lives. “I don’t need a partner to feel complete, but I do need my friends. Please know how important you are to me. I may seem fine living like a hermit, but having friends I can call at any time makes me feel as though I’m not alone,” explains Anne.

Joanne is thrilled to have good friends: “I feel I hit the ‘girlfriends lottery’ because I was lucky enough to have friends who believed friendships were important enough to maintain, even after they got married.” She cautions, “It’s never cool to drop your friends after you get married. When I hear about mature women who get a man and just drop their friends, it’s a tough pill for me to swallow. Now I have to admit that when I was in my early 20s, I thought I was in love and I neglected my best friend, Carol. Thank God Carol was still there when I came back, tail between my legs. She never said anything about it but I vowed that I would never drop a friend like that again.”

Ellie has been on the receiving end of being dropped by married girlfriends — in her case, after her divorce: “It hurt, a lot. It sucks to have women who were once your friends decide that you are suddenly the devil because you are not with their husband’s bestie. One of them actually told me that we could still be friends as long as I didn’t bring up all of the ‘garbage.’ That ‘garbage’ was my life! I told her to fuck off.”

And when it comes to making new married friends, Sue is surprised at the attitude she sometimes encounters: “Some people think they have nothing in common with you because you have never been married, but some of my relationships have lasted longer than their marriages! It is so funny to me that my 9-to-10-year relationship doesn’t count but their 6-month marriage does — or their serial marriages, in some cases!”

4. Just because I’m single and 50 doesn’t mean I’m desperate and will date anyone
Many, but not all, women who are single in midlife would like to be in a relationship and do enjoy dating. Sue describes “that wonderful feeling of first dates, that thrill of starting over.” But most of them say that dating in your 40s and later can be hard, that there are not that many eligible men who are a good match.

Bonnie feels it’s particularly discouraging that “men my age want to date someone 10 to 20 years younger than them. What is going on? Are they for real? I want someone my age. I don’t want someone 10 to 20 years older than me.”

These women appreciate being set up by their friends but resent it when the bar is set too low. Stephanie explains, “They are anxious to match me up with someone they know, their only criteria being that he is also single — no regard for my likes or dislikes. When I don’t act interested in the guy they describe as an alcoholic, someone who has weird social skills, the devoutly religious man of a different religion than mine, the guy who is nice but a little slow, or the one who poisons squirrels in his back yard, they think I am being picky. My well-meaning elderly neighbor suggested that I should act dumb on the first few dates to attract a man, as I apparently scare them off with my immense intellect!”

Nicole agrees, “Just because I am not seeing someone does not mean I am desperate and will date just anyone. If I was not attracted to a type of guy before, what makes you think that will suddenly change just because I’m over 40?” She also wants to make sure married women understand that “as a single woman over 40 who lives alone and has no kids, I still like sex!”

And yes, like Stephanie, single women in midlife get accused of being too picky or demanding. Gertrude explains: “They think I’m only looking for a certain type of man, good-looking with a lot of money. I am not. I value honest, friendly, and nonjudgmental people in my life. I am a professional and would like to be with a professional partner, but if I don’t feel the right vibe, all of what he is or has does not matter.”

5. My future is no worse than yours — there are no guarantees in life
The women I interviewed have pretty realistic perspectives on the future. Bonnie admits, “After being single for 8 years, I wonder if I will be single for the rest of my life. I don’t think so as I think I’m just entering my prime years, but I sometimes wonder.”

Sue gets annoyed at the questions: “I’m tired of people saying, ‘Who will take care of you when you are older?’ One of my friends has been married three times and outlived three husbands; there are no guarantees in this life. Yes, sometimes I think about what will happen if I age and lose my capacities but it is what it is and, if you prepare things properly and have someone who can be your advocate and executor, you don’t have to worry.”

Joanne agrees wholeheartedly: “Young women make it a point to mention that they are not going to end up at 50-something without a man. But there is nothing that you can do in your younger years that will absolutely guarantee that you will have a man when you’re in your 50s, or that he will be around for the long run. I always wish new couples a long and wonderful life together, but please don’t be cocky because nothing is guaranteed.”

6. Please believe me when I say it: I am okay
Women who are single in midlife want the rest of us to know that, despite life’s normal ups and downs, they are doing just fine. In Marie‘s words: “Gay marriage has become accepted and transgendered people are now demanding acceptance; I think singlehood is the next frontier of social acceptance. As a single older woman, I want acceptance, not suspicion or assumptions. I am not damaged goods. I am not sad. I am not a reject. That smile you see on my face is genuine.”

Sue agrees, “Some people think you never married because you were selfish or too focused on your career or too picky. Did they ever think it just wasn’t meant to be your life and there is nothing wrong with being single?”

Cari, divorced mother of a 7-year-old, appreciates her newfound independence: “Being single at this point in my life has many benefits, mainly the ability to make my own decisions about my life without having to ‘check’ with anyone. I get to decide how the money is managed, what bills get paid off first, what school or summer camp is appropriate for my child. There are no differences of opinion, no debates, and no accommodations to be made. My single life is very productive and busy. I’ll admit, there are times it would be nice to have a second set of hands around the house or around me, and someday I may meet someone who I want to spend my life with, but for now I am enjoying my decision-making freedom immensely. Being financially independent means that I do not ‘need’ a man in my life to survive, but should I decide I ‘want’ a man in my life, there is no pressure to prove myself or my worth; either you enjoy my company or you don’t. I have been married and lonely and, believe me, that is much worse than being single, independent, and free.”

Stephanie agrees: “I didn’t ever expect to be single for my whole life, but so far it has worked out that way. And now that I am beyond the ‘baby years,’ I am actually pretty much ok with it and wonder if marriage is even one of my goals anymore. If I had married any of the men I thought I wanted to marry, I am pretty sure I would be divorced now anyway. I am happy with the life I have built and am lucky to be able to afford most things that I want on one income.”

“Sometimes single status is a choice, not a temporary unfortunate state that I am trying to change,” explains Katie. “Being single allows me to focus on my family and not have anyone making demands on my time that would interfere with this fleeting time my children are living at home. As my nest empties, I see endless possibilities in my next chapter. I am unencumbered by a spouse’s work life. I feel like a freshman in college again. The world is my oyster!”

7. Being married does not give you the right to be insensitive
It’s amazing what people feel they can say to women who are single in midlife. Here are some examples from Sue, a never-married single woman in her 60s: “When I moved to a new home and met new people, they seemed taken aback that I never married. I was greeted with ‘How could that be?’ and ‘For real, you never got married?’ or ‘Not even for a little while?’ One woman actually said ‘You should have gotten married and divorced so you could say you had been married.’ Crazy stuff!”

Sue also warns that people should not ask why you’ve never been married: “One friend of mine lost two fiancés to early deaths before they married and she absolutely hates to be asked this question.”

And watch the way you talk about single women with other partnered people. In Joanne’s words, “Once you hit 40, it’s automatically assumed ‘She has issues, or something is wrong with her, or she’s selfish, or she didn’t get married due to her career, or she must hate men, or she lives a sad and lonely existence.’ It’s the image of the ‘old spinster’ with a house full of cats. I feel lucky that my girlfriends look at me as the whole person that they know me to be and judge me solely on that, not on any narrow-minded definitions of single women over 40.”

Marie feels there are other stereotypes to watch for: “One is that we just might be a bit morally loose. One time, when my son had a new friend sleep over for the first time, the mom, who knew I was single and living alone, said, ‘You don’t have any boyfriends sleeping over, do you? I can’t let my son sleep over if you do.’ This same (married) woman ran away with her (married) church pastor a few months later!”

Single women want us to know that being single is just one small aspect of their very full lives. And they certainly don’t want our pity. In Marie’s words: “A college sorority sister, with whom I reconnected on social media after 35 years, messaged me to say, ‘Too bad your marriage didn’t work out; but at least you have a beautiful son.’ True, but evidence of my marital status is scant, while evidence of my great career, exciting expatriate years, and my fun times with friends are splashed all over Facebook every day.”

These women are often expected to dole out the gifts for every life event but would appreciate some reciprocity once in a while. Jodi explains, “You get a gift when you get engaged, another gift for the bachelorette party, and then an actual wedding gift. Then come the kids; some of my friends tell me what to get their kids, even when I don’t ask. And do I ever get a gift?” Gertrude agrees that is would be nice to receive “flowers or other gifts on special days.”

8. Once and for all, I’m not after your husband
Admittedly, the most shocking finding from these interviews was how often this apparent issue came up. So, all you married ladies, rest assured, most middle-aged single ladies are NOT flirting with your husbands. Here is just a sampling of what I heard…

Sue: “When women view us as a threat to their relationships, that is hurtful, as if they don’t trust you or think you have integrity. I wish my married friends understood I don’t want their spouses even if I appreciate spending time with them. I wish they understood that you can be friends with men and not threaten their marriage.”

Marie: “Married ladies, I am not after your husband. I honor your marriage and your friendship. Not all of us are trolling. We are busy raising our children and looking for our own Mr. Wonderful. Sure, there are exceptions, but don’t automatically assume I can’t be trusted when I chat with your husband at the intramural game. Rest assured we chat pleasantly and I make sure to mention you often.”

Gertrude: “I try not to make long conversations with the husband to prevent feelings that I want their man. I respect marriage and would never try to be with another person’s husband.”

Helaine: “This always comes up. I have been explicitly told to stay away from their husbands by two women, one to my face, one behind my back.”

Can we stop assuming and judging and lean in to understanding and acceptance? Are we all so different? Ellie sums it up: “I am one of you. I am trying every day to be a good mother, a good daughter, a good sister, a good granddaughter. I am working on myself, fighting my demons, winning sometimes, losing sometimes. I am a woman just like you.”

*Some names have been changed if requested by contributors.

Hélène Tragos Stelian writes about midlife reinventions on her blog www.nextactforwomen.com. Connect with her on Facebook and on Twitter

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“Coffee mug water pipe” makers IronMan Design told The Huffington Post that their “pipe” can be used to smoke regular or shisha tobacco, the kind commonly found in hookahs. That said, they also told HuffPost that the product is modeled after the coffee-mug bong from “The Cabin in the Woods,” a similarity that io9 pointed out. Go to their website, and you’ll find only smoking tobacco is mentioned in the product description, but the original movie version was certainly about getting “stoned.”

IronMan Design has recently released a couple videos featuring YouTube prankster Eric Bert – who is not an employee — where Bert asks for a seemingly innocuous light while holding the mug in its compact form before whipping out the secret extension. A GIF from the most recent video went viral on Reddit earlier Tuesday.

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